a boy who was always losing his temper

من طرف لولو حسن الأحد نوفمبر 11, 2012 10:37 pm

a boy who was always losing his temper

قصة و عبرة story to learn from

قصة رائعة باللغة الانجليزية ومترجمة الى العربية

It teaches a great Lesson and I hope you read and enjoy.There was a boy who was
always losing his temper. His father gave him a bag full of nails and said to
him, “My son, I want you to hammer a nail into our garden fence every time you
need to direct your anger against something and you lose your temper.”

So the son started to follow his father’s advice. On the first day he hammered
in 37 nails, but getting the nails into the fence was not easy, so he started
trying to control himself when he got . As the days went by, he was hammering
in less nails, and within weeks he was able to control himself and was able to
refrain from getting and from hammering nails. He came to his father and told
him what he had achieved. His father was with his efforts and said to him: “But
now, my son, you have to take out a nail for every day that you do not get .”

The son started to take out the nails for each day that he did not get , until
there were no nails left in the fence.

He came to his father and told him what he had achieved. His father took him to
the fence and said, “My son, you have done well, but look at these holes in the
fence. This fence will never be the same again.” Then he added: “When you say
things in a state of anger, they leave marks like these holes on the hearts of
others. You can stab a person and withdraw the knife but it doesn’t matter how
many times you say ‘I’m sorry,’ because the wound will remain.

والآن مع القصة ولكن باللغة العربية .

كان هناك ولد عصبي وكان يفقد صوابه بشكل مستمر فأحضر له والده كيساً
مملوءاً بالمسامير وقال له : يا بني أريدك أن تدق مسماراً في سياج حديقتنا
الخشبي كلما اجتاحتك موجة غضب وفقدت أعصابك .

وهكذا بدأ الولد بتنفيذ نصيحة والده ....

فدق في اليوم الأول 37 مسماراً ، ولكن إدخال المسمار في السياج لم يكن
سهلاً.

فبدأ يحاول تمالك نفسه عند الغضب ، وبعدها وبعد مرور أيام كان يدق
مسامير أقل ، وفي أسابيع تمكن من ضبط نفسه ، وتوقف عن الغضب وعن دق
المسامير ، فجاء والده وأخبره بإنجازه ففرح الأب بهذا التحول ، وقال له :
ولكن عليك الآن يا بني استخراج مسمار لكل يوم يمر عليك لم تغضب فيه .

وبدأ الولد من جديد بخلع المسامير في اليوم الذي لا يغضب فيه حتى انتهى من
المسامير في السياج .

فجاءإلى والده وأخبره بإنجازه مرة أخرى ، فأخذه والده إلى السياج وقال له :
يا بني أحسنت صنعاً ، ولكن انظر الآن إلى تلك الثقوب في السياج ،
هذا السياج لن يكون كما كان أبداً ، وأضاف :

عندما تقول أشياء في حالة الغضب فإنها تترك آثاراً مثل هذه الثقوب في نفوس
الآخرين .

تستطيع أن تطعن الإنسان وتُخرج السكين ولكن لا يهم كم مرة تقول : أنا آسف
لأن الجرح سيظل هناك .

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